Spiritual Development in Early Childhood
Even at the ages of two, three and four, there is comptetition for our children’s attention. More is known now about how our children develop than ever before. I’m always impressed by parents who go the the extra mile to give their children what they need — information, stimulation, nutrition, exercise, play, socialization — and more. The simple act of parenting is now a complicated matter indeed.
Into this mix, I’d like to include the very important ingredient of spiritual development. I can’t help wondering if it isn’t something that many contemporary parents are putting off — until a child reads, or is a teenager, or even has left the house and can choose for themselves. As a parent of three daughters and a pastor for many years, I’ve seen first hand the tremendous benefits of respecting and nurturing a child’s spiritual development — her knowledge of and relationship with the God who made her.
First, a child that knows they are loved by God will know how to value their life. It is no secret that young people are subject to temptations unlike any generation before them. There is trouble to get into everywhere — online, addictions and more. There is a day coming for each parent when we’ll want them to “make good choices”. The young person who has grown up knowing that they are made and loved by God will be much more likely to value their own life and have a sense of self-worth. And when those feelings are tested, as they most certainly will be, they will have a firm foundation on which to stand.
Second, a child that knows the love of God will be kind. Schools do a terrific job these days encouraging kindness. Early childhood is the perfect time to ground that instruction in the love of God. By the time a child is in kindergarten he can know that he loves others because God loves him. A spiritually grounded child will be more compassionate, patient, flexible and kind. Leave a spiritual foundation out, and it can lead to a shallow morality that quickly fades away.
Finally, a child that worships and honors God understands authority. I watch in wonder as a child sings to God. It’s an awesome and mysterious blessing when I see a child connect with God in praise! The child that knows God is great, powerful, loving and creative will better know how to respect their parents and teachers. Children without this foundation may know no other authority than their own wants and desires. A good spiritual foundation can lead to healthier relationships, functionality in society and a humility that often sparks a fruitful life and vocation.
All of these things, and more, is why we are so dedicated to partnering with parents in our preschool programs at St. Thomas Episcopal School. We work hard every day instilling the academic, social, physical and emotional support our students need. With this comes a deep respect their spiritual development. Just like every child is different academically, they are different spiritually. Young children need to be listened to, respected and supported and their parents need a trustworthy partner in the blessed and wonderful responsibility of bringing up our children in the way that they should go.
